Inclusion isn’t passive

The past six months have brought a focus on social and economic divisions that is greater than probably any other period of my lifetime. And with it comes the talk of the need for greater cohesion and the inevitable use of the word inclusion. Every aspect of our life needs to be more “inclusive”.

The joy of the word inclusion is that it has a very personal appeal. Greater inclusivity offers the promise that I, myself, may be better involved, better consulted, better represented in the aspects of life where I feel the outcomes don’t match with my personal agenda.

It is why many business have honed in on the inclusivity tag over and above diversity. The psychological inference of diversity is about others, about difference and about the things that we need to change. Whereas inclusion can be seen to have something in it for me, without an imperative to do anything different.

The value of inclusion starts with understanding your relative position of influence in the system. We all have an inherent desire to be included in things, that’s the constant nagging of our ego, the genuine reason for FOMO. The value only manifests if we understand our role and our contribution and how we can effect change for those that are around us.

With the positive connotations of the use of inclusion, we must not avoid the practical implications, the systemic and structural requirements that are needed to achieve it. Rarely will we view our own “system” as being exclusive, most people believe themselves to be welcoming, to be tolerant and to contribute in a way that allows anyone to prosper and succeed. Instead we look to the actions, the behaviours and beliefs of others.

At the heart of any change is action. If we want to see a different result, we need to do different things, behave in different ways and adopt different beliefs. That is true for all of us, for “them”, for me and for you. And in turn that means that there will be give and take as the system moves and adapts to accommodate a new norm.

Inclusivity isn’t soft, it isn’t passive, it isn’t a polite middle class way of addressing the needs of society. It is real and gritty and challenging and meaningful. It requires us all to assess our own
role and contribution. For more voices to be heard, more people need to listen, for more difference, we need less conformity and for more giving, we need less self. And for all of that, it needs to start with I, not you.

Expectation versus reality

In life, whether  at work or at home, there are expectations and there are realities. One hopes for certain things to occur and then observes how things play out over time. Rarely does life play the hand which we expect to encounter and yet often the reality is, in real terms, no worse than our expectation.

Just different.

Some say that if you hope for nothing, you’ll never be disappointed. But that seems to me to miss the point, you have to question the purpose of life itself if you hope for nothing more than already exists.

Others say that you should make things happen, not wait for chance. But can you make snow fall on the perfect landscape, or engineer a serendipitous meeting of minds? Many of the most valuable moments in life can’t be made to occur.

Things happen that are out of our control. Instead, how we respond to them, how we react to them are the determinants of our happiness and success. Our ability to smile, to carry on, to hope and to dream are the demonstrable outcomes of our resilience as human beings and the key to our meaningful existence.

Seeing the opportunity, the possibility and positivity in circumstances beyond our control is a measure of our ability to progress, to succeed and to survive. Because, in most cases, the gap between our expectations and reality is rarely as significant as it might feel at the time.

The reality is that at repeated points in life we will all be sad, disappointed, let down or hurt. That doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t continue to try, to hope, it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t care, shouldn’t continue to strive or even love. In many ways, the power of all of those emotions manifests most prominently when they fail to be realised. In adversity we see the true strength and beauty of the essence of being human.

By recognising this, we can choose to be strong when times are hard, we can choose to smile when times are sad and we can choose to see light when all around is dark. No matter how impossible it might seem at the time.

The end of 2016

So, here we are. Coming to the end of 2016 and for me, the last time this year that I’m going to sit down and write.

Glad it’s over?

Yeah, the prevailing view seems to be that 2016 has been a bit of a sucky year. But I’m not so sure. Beyond the hype and the hyperbole, the media column inches, I see some good things out there, things that warrant a mention.

The first round the world solar-powered flight – This is serious game changing technology. We might be having arguments about who runs this and who runs that. But that all seems pretty pointless if the actual planet that we’re on is going to hell in a handcart. Step forward Bertrand Piccard and Solar Impulse 2. Now imagine if we replaced all of the flights taking place across the world with solar-powered planes and the impact that would have on our ecosystem. I’m not saying that is going to happen over night (no pun intended) but it sure took a major step closer in 2016.

The tiger population is growing for the first time in 100 years – See my previous point about going to hell in a handcart. Are we slowly getting to grips with endangered species? Maybe, certainly not quickly enough, but it’s a positive step. And we did that, human beings. By our actions and changed behaviour. Though consistently coming together to try to make amends. Another small step? Sure. But one that shows what we can do, against the odds, if we really want to. And I know the tigers are grateful.

The fight against HIV moves on – When I was growing up, the fear of AIDS and HIV was everywhere, on the television, in the papers, on the radio. There was a genuine sense that we were sitting on a ticking time bomb. And whilst there is much to be done, the year has also seen a number of major advances in the fight to eliminate HIV, at least in the West. Whether it is the advances in cell therapy in Israel, or the provision of “prep” drugs in the UK, 2016 has been another big step forward.

The ice bucket challenge came good – I’l admit I was a hater at the time. I didn’t get it (still don’t), but you can’t be right all the time. Seems like those of you who tipped water over yourselves for fun and charity were on to a thing. The money received as a result of your collectivity stupidity actually did something good and 2016 has been the year where scientists have identified a new gene associated with ALS and therefore the chance to better figure our how to develop new treatments.

We created a new generation of heroes – 130 million of them to be honest. That’s the approximate annual birth rate I’m told, I haven’t counted. And in a world where we are bemoaning the loss of so many of our existing idols, isn’t it exciting to think that we are also creating the future? The people who will change our world, make us laugh, entertain, build, design, create and lead. A new generation of people to make the most of the planet that we’re trying to preserve.

So the thing is; some things might not have gone your way this year. You might not have got the result that you wanted in some way or another, but I’m sure that other people did. Put that aside and look at the amazing power that we have as humans to change our circumstances and make things better. To innovate, to protect and preserve, to cure and solve and to recreate.

We can dwell on the things that don’t go our way, we can talk about our moans and our groans. But as 2016 comes to an end, try to find a little bit of space in your head and your heart, to think about the future, the opportunities, the positives and the successes. When we come together as a species, we can do bad things, but we can also create the most incredibly beauty.

Have a good break. Peace out.

Meeting the productivity gap

I have a confession to make, I’ve become a little obsessed by meetings. I’m fascinated by the way in which we, in organisations, fill significant proportions of our time talking about the things that need to be done.

Which feels kind of weird.

I saw some data last week that showed that the higher up you go in an organisation, the higher proportion of your time is spent in meetings. Now assuming that people have succeeded in work because of a level of competence in doing “something”, to take them away from that to instead talk about “stuff” seems slightly counter intuitive.

And even accepting that the coming together of people within organisations is a valuable part of the working agenda (which I absolutely believe to be true). How often are meetings run by the most skilled most adept facilitator versus how often are they run by the most senior person?

What happens is that we are stuck in a historical model of business, where those on high would call together their underlings to convey, check, question or hold to account. And whilst so many aspects of our business life have changed, this one part still remains firmly planted in the past.

The much talked productivity gap that exists within UK business surely can’t be helped by the amount of unproductive time spent in unnecessary or badly run or defined meetings. Freeing people up to do rather than talk, to create rather than discuss.

When our lives become about meetings, we have to ask ourselves whether we are adding value, or simply taking resources away from the main purpose of our organisation.